Teams & Facilitation
Sometimes the work isn't with one person. It's with the room.
A team is more than the individuals sitting around the table. It is also the relationships between them. The conversations they have, and the ones they avoid. The assumptions they carry about one another. The habits that have become normal. The way responsibility, authority, trust and challenge move through the room.
My work with leadership teams creates space to notice those patterns, work with what is actually happening and build different ways of thinking, relating and acting together.
What may be happening
The capability may be there. Something between you is getting in the way.
The same conversations keep returning.
You talk about the issue, agree what needs to happen and somehow find yourselves back in the same place.
People are holding back.
There is more agreement in the meeting than there is afterwards. Important things are being said elsewhere, or not at all.
Accountability is uneven.
A few people carry too much while responsibility slips between roles, functions or individuals.
Conflict is either avoided or consumes too much energy.
Difference is becoming personal, political or simply too difficult to work with productively.
You have strong individuals but not yet a strong team.
People perform well in their own areas, but collective thinking, ownership and decision-making are weaker than they need to be.
Something has changed.
A restructure, new strategy, merger, leadership transition or shift in purpose means the team needs to become something different from what it has been.
What is happening between us that we cannot solve simply by working harder as individuals?
From individuals to system
The team itself becomes the client.
Team coaching is not simply one-to-one coaching carried out with several people in the room.
The focus shifts. We become interested not only in what each person thinks or does, but in what the team creates together.
How decisions get made.
Whose voices carry weight.
What happens when people disagree.
Where responsibility sits.
What the team says it values, and what its behaviour actually rewards.
How the team responds under pressure.
What stakeholders need from it.
And what patterns continue even when individual people change.
The work is not about diagnosing who is “the problem”. It is about helping the team see itself more clearly as a system and increasing the choices available to it.
A team is more than the sum of its individual profiles.
Different needs. Different forms of work.
You don't need to diagnose the intervention before we speak.
Best when the team itself is the work.
The focus is on live relationships, recurring patterns, collective behaviour, stakeholder value and how the team functions as a system over time.
Team coaching usually involves working together across multiple sessions so the team can notice patterns, experiment and build new ways of working.
Best when the team needs to get somewhere important together.
That might mean making a decision, resolving a difficult issue, creating strategy, resetting how the team works or having a conversation that would be difficult to hold without an external facilitator.
The facilitator holds the process so the team can focus on the work.
Best when a team needs a mixture of learning, reflection and application.
This may bring together team development, practical leadership tools, facilitated dialogue and live work on the team's real challenges.
Sometimes the right answer is one of these. Often the work moves between them.
When teams seek support
Teams usually seek support at moments that matter.
A new leadership team is forming.
A team has inherited significant organisational change.
Relationships have become strained, or trust has been damaged.
A new strategy requires stronger collective leadership.
Accountability is unclear, or the leader has become the centre of too many decisions.
The team is working in silos, or difficult conversations keep being postponed.
Performance is good but collective potential is not being realised.
A merger, restructure or transition has altered the system, or stakeholders need something different from the team.
The starting point is not “Which workshop should we run?” It is “What is this team being asked to become?”
Working with what is live
Warmth, challenge and attention to what is happening between people.
I pay attention not only to what the team is talking about, but to how the team is talking.
Who enters the conversation.
Who disappears.
What can be challenged.
What cannot.
Where energy rises.
Where responsibility moves.
What people laugh away.
What happens after someone takes a risk.
The room itself provides information. My role is not to arrive with a judgement about what the team should become. It is to help the team see itself more clearly, work with what is actually happening and make more intentional choices together.
My job is to help the team see more clearly, stay with difficulty, question old patterns and increase its range of choice.
Before we enter the room
Good team work starts before the session.
The quality of the work depends on understanding the context first. Before working with a team, I will usually speak with the team leader and, where appropriate, other stakeholders.
Where appropriate, I may also speak with individual team members before we begin. The purpose is not to arrive with a diagnosis. It is to understand enough of the system to enter the room intelligently.
Before we begin, we explore
- Why now, and what is happening
- What has already been tried
- What the team believes the issue is, and what other stakeholders need from the team
- What success would look like, and what should and should not be part of the work
The work over time
We begin with the real work of the team.
This is how the work tends to develop, not a prescribed methodology every team must follow. Each engagement moves through this territory at its own pace, and not always in a straight line.
Understand the context
What is the team here to achieve, for whom, and why does it matter now?
Contract with the team
Clarify purpose, expectations, confidentiality, roles and what the team is willing to work on.
Work with what happens in the room
Real interactions become material for the work, rather than something to move past to reach the agenda.
Experiment
The team tries different ways of speaking, deciding, challenging, listening and taking responsibility.
Reconnect to stakeholders and purpose
Not only whether the team feels better together, but whether it is creating greater value for the people and systems it serves.
Review and integrate
Notice what has changed, what remains difficult and what the team now needs to continue without the coach.
What good work makes possible
Greater awareness should create greater collective choice.
Every team and engagement is different. Areas the work can support include:
- Clearer purpose and priorities, and more honest conversations
- Greater trust without avoiding challenge
- Clearer decision-making and stronger accountability
- Less dependency on the team leader, and more productive conflict
- Better use of difference, and greater awareness of recurring patterns
- More collective ownership and a stronger stakeholder focus
- A team that can notice and adjust itself without always needing external support
The goal is not dependence on the coach. It is a team increasingly able to see, challenge and develop itself.
Anonymised case study
Becoming a Team
A newly constituted senior leadership team had new people around the table, but some familiar patterns remained: dominant voices, others holding back and an inherited story about how the team worked.
Over three months, team sessions, individual Enneagram conversations and leadership coaching helped ten people understand themselves, make better use of difference and begin creating a more intentional team together.
The quietest person asked the room to pause. What they said next changed the conversation.
One possible lens
The Enneagram can support the work, but it is not always the starting point.
Where appropriate, the iEQ9 Enneagram can give a team useful language for patterns of attention, motivation, behaviour and relationship. It can help people understand themselves and one another with greater nuance.
But I do not begin by assuming the team needs a profile. Sometimes the most useful material is already happening visibly in the room. The Enneagram is one lens within a wider systemic practice, not the programme itself.
Which kind of support?
Facilitation and team coaching are related, but not identical.
Facilitation may be the better fit when
- There is a specific conversation or outcome to reach
- The team needs structured dialogue
- A strategy, decision or plan needs to be created
- Conflict or complexity makes it difficult to facilitate yourselves
- An external neutral process would help the group move forward
Team coaching may be the better fit when
- The patterns themselves need attention
- The team wants to improve how it works over time
- Relationships, trust or accountability need to change
- Recurring issues survive individual meetings or interventions
- The team needs to become better at noticing and adjusting itself
Sometimes an initial facilitated conversation reveals that further team coaching would be useful. Sometimes one well-designed session is enough.
Grounded in the room
Work grounded in real leadership settings.
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How I work with teams
Coaching the team with care.
Working with a team differs from coaching one person. Multiple perspectives, histories, identities, power dynamics and stakeholder relationships are all in the room at once.
My role is to create enough safety for honesty, enough challenge for something real without it becoming performance, and enough structure to keep the work moving without over-controlling the room.
My team work draws on systemic and analytic approaches, Narrative Coaching, the Enneagram, facilitation and years of working with leadership groups. Methods remain secondary to what the team actually needs.
The work is serious. It does not have to be solemn.
Start with the team
You do not need to diagnose the team before beginning the conversation.
Tell me what is happening. What keeps repeating. What is difficult to say. What the team is trying to achieve. From there, we can work out whether the most useful starting point is facilitation, team coaching, development or something else.